Self-discovery is underway. So I decided to make a continuous learning and humiliating moments, then enjoy a better life to bear.
Not all the personal pain that we experience in life is the result of external circumstances or causes of action were different. Frankly, we often create our world and we come to experience good or bad. Responsibility for such, though painful, is also empowered, because we change our lives and therefore our world.
I went through a major setback emotional, make friends and date of search, when a young woman, a woman who followed me at first. After his return from abroad, I talked to him on the phone, then go to his home Monday Night Football. At first I did not really think anything would meet with my hair other than a friendship. But when I met her, felt her heart, watching her type and I saw what a good person that I was somehow making her.
This is generally not a bad thing, especially when the girl has an interest to express yourself. But what are the days that followed was nothing less than catastrophic.
My grandfather always called me beloved “away” and would even attempt, with emphasis added words: “Go see this word in the dictionary Paul.” Apparently, I have ever, and it’s a lesson I’ll learn.
Intensity is another property of mine. If I have something I want to go. If I child when I took baseball, I do not want to play an hour a week or two, like other children. I want to play ball day and night, the sun went down. Then I go to bed with my baseball glove next to my pillow.
Academic Council as soon as I found my thirst for knowledge and pursuit of knowledge for the same. I would sit and wait outside the office of my professor after class for other economic issues.
may then, if spirituality has become one of my interests, I had no church to attend the conference and buy all the books, my own spiritual growth.
Intensity related to the completion of the acquisition of things and be successful, but in order to develop a friendship to a relationship can be devastating. Let me learn the hard way.
It’s like a dog approaches. If you go to him, he’ll probably chase after you. But when you approach a quiet dog, he’ll probably sit there and let the stroking.
Friendships and relationships are just the same amount of sweetness, patience and tact necessary. Not fool your friends if you want to walk you! Learn to be patient, your soul, your emotions and dishes have to control your temper.
My mistake improved my time and gave me a better understanding of security. This title is not in a hurry. Love is patient. The chick by the trap, not oppressive. The little girl can not survive outside of the egg until it is fully developed and is ready to hatch. A first attempt to kill the little chicks come. So my relational maneuver.
But I’m better in the long term. I learned the importance of personal safety while in the middle of me and the need of the moment in relations relationship. Today, I’m getting married to a wonderful woman that I intend, which is perfect for me and my career is running.
In hindsight, I recognize my mistakes were mostly about my loneliness, because I was not particularly physically to the young lady, I caught my horror zeal.
I heard the Bible backwards, from Revelation, it seems to me to learn the relationships the same way (by trial and error). Failure is never final. There are only comments. How can you not presented, and smelled like roses!
Here are 12 Secrets to Secure Your Heart.
1. Protection means you are not in a hurry.
2. Love is patient.
3. Let patience have her perfect work, and judge not to speak or act prematurely.
4. Intimacy can never happen, where insecurity is the solution.
5. to punish rather than to recognize and confront your fears, because another of them.
6. Do not place unrealistic expectations on people to your unmet needs.
7. Determine the appropriate limits for your professional and relational well-being and security.
8. to face a mountain of a molehill a soul trying to find unmet needs to solve.
9. If you are back instead of forward, look for self-sabotaging beliefs and fears fueling your behavior. Perfect love casts out fear. They can not both concerned and love.
10. Patiently, you check your thoughts, feelings, moods, interactions and reactions of people and circumstances. Although much of himself.
11. Security is not found if you search for your own, but the well-being of others.
12. If you give love, receive love. No goal for a shot before making a deposit.
Paul Davis is author of Breakthrough for a Broken Heart a book telling us “How to overcome disappointments and flowers in your dreams!” He is a minister, life coach (relational and professional), dating expert, popular speaker around the world, creative consultant, humor, adventurer, explorer, mediator, liberator and creator of dreams.
Paul Travel compassion for the people and the passion he has in over 50 countries around the world where he had a huge influence. Paul is also a flower of many war zones and impoverished areas affected by the tsunami in the world. His nonprofit organization Dream-Maker Ministries is building dreams and breaking limitations